Have you ever experienced that your friend/colleague done
something that turns out great, instead of being happy for their success, all
you can think is, “Why didn’t I think of that before?” Frankly speaking, I once
thought of that before, especially when one of my friends managed to think of a
better idea than mine.
Jealousy is a common emotion in people. It’s easy to view a friend/colleague’s
gain as your loss. So, instead of wasting time beating yourself up, how bout tries
to put this energy to work for you. If your friend/colleague can do it, why can’t
you? Let their good luck propel you forward, and remind yourself that your
goals are achievable too. See them as an example J.
You can also learn from them, pay closer attention to them,
it may look like pure luck, but usually more to it than that. Jealousy? Left to
itself, is a drain of energy. Next time when you find yourself pulling out your
hair, wondering “Why didn’t I think of that before?” Take a few breaths, then
think again. J
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